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Emotions: how you feel, and how they seem

嬉しいureshiihappy悲しいkanashiisad怒っているokotte iruangry怖いkowaiscared恥ずかしいhazukashiiembarrassed
怒る (get angry) is a verb, so “angry” is 怒っている. The others are い-adjectives.

Short answer: most Japanese feeling words are い-adjectives: 嬉しい (happy), 悲しい (sad), 怖い (scared). Japanese treats feelings as private, so these words describe your own feelings. For someone else, you say how they seem: 嬉しそうです (“she looks happy”) or 寂しがっています (“he is showing loneliness”). Reactions like よかった (thank goodness) and 残念 (what a pity) carry much of everyday conversation.

Feeling words

Press each to hear it. 楽しい is enjoyment of an activity; 嬉しい is happiness about something that happened.

Other people’s feelings: そう and がる

You cannot know someone else’s feelings from the inside, so Japanese adds そう (looks…) or がる (shows signs of…). Drop the final い first.

FormMeaningFrom
ureshisōlooks happy嬉しい
kanashisōlooks sad悲しい
sabishigatte iruis (showing he is) lonely寂しい
kowagatte iruis scared怖い
shinpai shite iruis worried心配する

Reactions

Short set reactions are how Japanese listeners show they care.

Relief
Disappointment
Surprise
Sympathy
Disbelief
Joy

More feelings

Words for the in-between feelings.

WordMeaningType
natsukashiinostalgicい-adjective
kuyashiifrustrated, sore (after losing)い-adjective
urayamashiienviousい-adjective
hazukashiiembarrassedい-adjective
hotto surufeel relievedverb
gakkari surube disappointedverb
kandō surube movedverb
kinchō surube nervousverb

Comforting someone

What to say when someone is upset.

Expressing feelings indirectly

Japanese often expresses strong feelings with understatement or set phrases.

ちょっとchottoa little寂しいさびしいsabishiilonelyですdesuisねne(isn’t it)
Chotto sabishii desu ne.“It’s a bit sad, isn’t it.”Why: ちょっと softens a strong feeling.
悪くないわるくないwarukunainot bad
Warukunai.“Not bad. (= quite good)”Why: Understatement as praise.
胸むねmunechestがga(subject)いっぱいippaifullですdesuis
Mune ga ippai desu.“My heart is full.”Why: An idiom for being overwhelmed with emotion.

Check yourself

Say each one in Japanese, then open the answer to check and hear it.

  1. I’m glad.
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    Ureshii desu.
  2. She looks happy.
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    Kanojo wa ureshisō desu.そう for other people’s feelings.
  3. I’m nervous.
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    Kinchō shite imasu.
  4. What a pity.
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    Zannen desu ne.
  5. Thank goodness.
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    Yokatta.
  6. Don’t worry about it.
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    Ki ni shinaide.

Feelings in sentences

Compare first person and third person.

合格してごうかくしてgōkaku shitepassed and嬉しいうれしいureshiihappyですdesu(polite)
Gōkaku shite ureshii desu.“I’m happy I passed.”Why: て form gives the reason: “passed, (so) happy”.
妹いもうとimōtomy sisterはwa(topic)嬉しそううれしそうureshisōlooks happyですdesuis
Imōto wa ureshisō desu.“My sister looks happy.”Why: Third person: そう. 妹は嬉しいです would sound like you are inside her head.
一人ひとりhitorialoneでde(state)寂しいさびしいsabishiilonelyですdesu(polite)
Hitori de sabishii desu.“I’m lonely on my own.”Why: 一人で: by oneself.
子供こどもkodomothe childがga(subject)犬いぬinuthe dogをo(object)怖がっていますこわがっていますkowagatte imasuis scared of
Kodomo ga inu o kowagatte imasu.“The child is scared of the dog.”Why: がる turns the adjective into a verb, so the feared thing takes を.

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