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Keigo: raising them, lowering yourself

尊敬語sonkeigorespectful: raises the other personいらっしゃる丁寧語teineigopolite: です and ます行きます謙譲語kenjōgohumble: lowers yourself参る“Go” at three levels: いらっしゃる when the other person goes, 行きます as plain politeness, 参る when you go.
Respectful and humble forms are both polite; they point in opposite directions. Never use respectful forms for yourself.

Short answer: keigo (敬語) is the system of respectful language. It has three parts. 尊敬語 (respectful) is used for what other people do: 先生がいらっしゃいました, “the teacher has arrived”. 謙譲語 (humble) is used for what you do for them: 私が参ります, “I will go”. 丁寧語 is the polite です and ます you already know. Most keigo is a short list of special verbs plus two patterns.

The special verbs

These replace the ordinary verb entirely. Learn them as pairs: respectful for others, humble for yourself.

PlainRespectful (they)Humble (I)
行く・来る・いるいらっしゃる irassharu参る mairu / おる oru (いる)
言うおっしゃる ossharu申す mōsu
するなさる nasaruいたす itasu
食べる・飲む召し上がる meshiagaruいただく itadaku
見るご覧になる goran ni naru拝見する haiken suru
知っているご存じだ gozonji da存じている zonjite iru
もらうNone いただく itadaku
くれるくださる kudasaruNone

Two patterns for every other verb

Verbs without a special form use お + stem + になる (respectful) or お + stem + する (humble). Many noun + する verbs use ご instead: ご説明します.

お〜になる: they do
お〜する: I do (for you)

Keigo you will hear every day

You do not need to produce these yet, but you will hear them in every shop, station and hotel.

Keigo nouns and set words

Keigo replaces some everyday nouns and words too.

KeigoMeaningEveryday word
onshayour company (spoken)会社
kishayour company (written)会社
heishaour company (humble)会社
kochirathis (person, place)これ, ここ
dochirawhere, who (polite)どこ, 誰
shōshōa little少し
tadaimaright now今
yoroshiigood, all rightいい

Building a keigo sentence step by step

From a plain sentence to business keigo, one step at a time.

Keigo in email

Fixed humble phrases that open and close business email.

お世話になっておりますおせわになっておりますosewa ni natte orimasuthank you for your support
Osewa ni natte orimasu.“Thank you for your continued support.”Why: Humble おる.
ご確認ごかくにんgokakuninconfirmationいただけますとitadakemasu toif I could receive幸いですさいわいですsaiwai desuI’d be grateful
Gokakunin itadakemasu to saiwai desu.“I’d be grateful if you could check.”Why: A very soft request.
何卒なにとぞnanitozokindlyよろしくyoroshikuwellお願い申し上げますおねがいもうしあげますonegai mōshiagemasuI humbly ask
Nanitozo yoroshiku onegai mōshiagemasu.“With sincere thanks in advance.”Why: The most formal closing.

Check yourself

Try each one, then open the answer to check and hear it.

  1. Respectful “is there?” (about a person)
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    irasshaimasu ka
  2. Humble “I am called”
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    mōshimasu
  3. Respectful “eat”
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    meshiagaru
  4. Humble “I’ll go / visit”
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    ukagaimasu
  5. “Certainly” (staff to customer)
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    kashikomarimashita

Keigo at work

On the phone to a client, respectful forms for the client, humble forms for yourself and your own colleagues.

Caller
山田様やまださまYamada-samaMr Yamadaはwa(topic)いらっしゃいますかirasshaimasu kais (he) in?
Yamada-sama wa irasshaimasu ka. · “Is Mr Yamada there?”いらっしゃる: respectful “is”.
Staff
申し訳ございませんもうしわけございませんmōshiwake gozaimasenI’m very sorry山田やまだYamadaYamadaはwa(topic)ただいまtadaimaright now席せきsekideskをo(object)外しておりますはずしておりますhazushite orimasuis away (humble)
Mōshiwake gozaimasen. Yamada wa tadaima seki o hazushite orimasu. · “I’m sorry, Yamada is away from his desk.”Talking to an outsider: no さん on her own colleague, and humble おります.
Caller
ではde wathenまたmataagainお電話しますおでんわしますodenwa shimasuI’ll call (humble)
De wa, mata odenwa shimasu. · “I’ll call back, then.”お + noun + します: humble.
Staff
かしこまりましたkashikomarimashitacertainly
Kashikomarimashita. · “Certainly.”The keigo “understood”.

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